Friends experimenting gay

Even IF it were common I don't think most straight guys would admit to it, and I suspect many would probably never act on it if they were even interested in experimenting. So basically, the question is for straight guys:. I found out that it is actually quite common.

I feel fortunate to have left much of the teachings from my junior and high-school behind me. I do not in any way feel this has any relation to my experimentation with boys or any question of sexual determination - I only bring this up to point out that I was exposed to sexuality in a bad way!

Have you ever had sexual contact with another male, and under what circumstances. The first is youthful experimentation, before the participants are fully aware or comfortable with their sexual orientation. During this time, as with everyone, you begin to mature in terms of your sexual identity, etc.

It was fooling around, something the parents or other friends should never know about. Being gay and having gay friends, I hear a lot about 2 kinds of dealings with straight guys. Again, I know nothing of the sort, and always considered straight guys to be completely unattainable.

And ALL of the male friends that did talk about experimenting ended up coming out as gay (none bi) years later. My husband and I both have had same gender sexual experiences. Since you indicated that your friend and his family are very religious, it sounds like he is in deep denial about whatever made him participate in that sexual activity with you.

I lived with a great deal of confusion about what my youthful experiences really meant about myself. To begin with, I was sexually molested around the age of 4 by a boyfriend of my mothers. It was exciting, fun, etc. Correction - I attended a fundamentalist non-denominational Christian school.

After high-school I met and married a woman and we were together for 9 years. I attended this school from 13 to graduation.

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These friends had found the same thing as me -- they really didn't believe that experimenting was that common, and tended to bring up the same two or three names. I participated in this type of youthful experimentation from about the age of 6 until 12ish with both males and females.

So I'm inclined to say it's fairly uncommon. At 13 I moved to another state with my mother and attended a Christian school. He may be gay, he may be bi, he may be straight (and was just experimenting, like many people do). I should say also that I did have a couple girlfriends while in high-school but never anything beyond 1st base.

It helped me let go of all that guilt and self-condemnation. I want to make clear that I do not think being gay is wrong any longer. But this is something that only he can come to terms with. Most of my experiences were similar, although add in a few where it was less scary to be with a strange woman than with a strange man.

VERY rigid, literalist Christian types. Men and women can experiment without being gay, or for that matter bi … I think most of this stuff just happens out of plain boredom. And instead of wearing latex gloves, I use lambskin. For him it was a friendly arrangement, finding it much easier and nicer to hook up with his gay friend than to pick up a strange woman at a bar.